No matter how kinky things get, this activity rarely happens with hookers and tricks

No matter how kinky things get, can you guess the activity seldom performed between hookers and tricks?
Seldom do we practice basic politeness. The word “please” is a rarity. No one gives 24 hour notice prior to cancellation. Providers are often unapologetically late. No one sends formal invitations or confirms plans in advance. Now that I think of it, I never received a single thank you note. Well, I never sent one, so what do I expect. They say “be the change you want to see in the world.” I have been rude. I think I am responding to situations but maybe I am creating the environment.