How does a straight guy have a homosexual encounter? Certain things must be said and I have listed what I have heard when I ask people about their adventures. Guys often told me they didn’t realize “she” was really a “he.” It was important for a lot of guys to let me know that they never intended to go with a dude, it just happened. By accident. Hmmm….I’m skeptical of that claim that when they initiated the hustle it was all about “punani” or flower, which is colloquial for female genitalia. (Am I a nerd or what?) Well, sometimes people have to tell themselves something to get them through life and below I have a comprehensive list of the justifications I have heard. By the way, it is not my contention that justification is necessary. Consenting adults should be able to do what they want without guilt, but that is not our life.
Is it ever really a surprise that she is really a he? I think I can always tell, but if I have been fooled obviously I don’t know it. If I had been a guy maybe I would find myself in a room, surprised by what I reached down and found on the other person. And what would I have done in that situation? Here is what people have said who found themselves in situations where sex was on the agenda but society put doubts in people’s minds that had to be overcome by the reasons put forth by the working girl or by the client himself (to himself, inside his mind)
- It’s just this one time
- It’s the first time
- It’ll be the last time
- No one knows we are together
- No one will ever know about this
- You’ll never do it again
- You’ve got to try it just once
- Let’s see where this goes
- I want to know for sure I am not gay so I’ll see if I can do it
- As long as porn is on that shows women while we do this, it’s cool
- This is experimenting, nothing serious.
- There’s no such thing as sexual orientation. People are attracted to people.
- You want me or you want fish?
- I am only young, nothing I do can be taken seriously
- This doesn’t count
- I have a girlfriend for real
- You’re not a man until you’ve been in a man
- As long as you’ve never been in a man you’re not gay
- If you close your eyes, touching is just friction and anybody could be doing it to you, male or female
- Every straight guy I’ve asked says yes as long as it’s a secret. Every straight guy, every time. It’s not just you.
- I can keep a secret.
- I’m already keeping lots and lots of secrets and you don’t know about those so you can trust me to keep your secret.
- I can’t say anything because no guy will ever trust me or go with me in secret again, so you know I won’t tell
- The d**k is the only part of the guy that I like, nothing else, so I am not gay. There’s no emotion, no attraction.
- If we don’t cross swords or touch swords, it doesn’t count.
- If he is dressed like a girl it’s the same thing as being with a girl.
- The female hormones keep him from getting hard when I s**k so it’s like being with a woman.
- I have relationships with women and sex with men, there’s no emotion.
- If he does me, and I don’t do him, it’s not the same as a homosexual encounter
- Hookers aren’t really people, it’s just dealing with a piece of flesh, not a person so it can’t effect my identity.
- Sex is not an identity it is an activity.
- I’m trisexual. I will try anything once.
- I don’t gossip like a b***h.
- Gay for pay or gay for the stay isn’t truly gay.
Yes, I have heard each of these statements and I did not invent any of them myself.
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