Read this link to my colleague’s blog and below you’ll find my story about adventures in Dirty Talk! How to Dirty Talk for Beginners — Phicklephilly

As straightforward as it sounds, dirty talking in bed can be intimidating. It’s a great way to spice up your sex life and turn on your partner, but knowing what to say and actually saying it are two very different things. It’s best to start simple before venturing into something really kinky, so if you’re […]

How to Dirty Talk for Beginners — Phicklephilly

Dirty Talk Makes Me Feel Uncomfortable, terribly. I have never known what to say! Whenever people are under stress they revert to what is most comfortable and natural to them. Of course, lifelong nerd that I am, I am most comfortable in an academic setting. Once, I was in an encounter with another person who kept insisting that I say something so in desperation, I fell back on what I knew–correct anatomical terms. I said something about the hard palette and the peripheral nervous system. Just when I was finding my rhythm, and before I had a chance to share the truly inspired comment I had about somatic nerves, the person burst out, in disgust, “Just stop! Only you could ruin dirty talk.”