How does a trick explain the secret to the longevity of his marriage to his long term hooker?

If you are at the point of having a private eye follow your spouse things are messed up already. It’s pointless to monitor people. If you have to ask the question You already know the answer. You don’t see me asking my wife where she goes and she doesn’t ask me. But the main thing is, I don’t push it. I’m home when I say I’m going to be. I set expectations I can meet, and then I meet them. Would I like it if my wife were doing the same thing that I am? In the back of my mind, probably not. I compartmentalize. Thoughts here, actions there. They don’t mix. I don’t over think what I do. I just do it. And get home on time.

I don’t over think what I do , i just do it. And get home on time.

A hobbyist, since the 1980’s