People, especially women, ask questions without fully considering the next step. Most questions are not questions but statements. If you have to ask an unpleasant question about what he is doing, you know the answer. What you’re really doing is saying: “I know you are cheating. This is my next move.” If you declare your knowledge one of two things will happen. You will do something. You will throw your life into turmoil but you believe it us for the best. Things will change because you’re changing them. Are you ready for this long, hard road? You will do nothing. Doing nothing is the same as giving him permission. Once you announce that he has your permission, that there will be no consequences for his behavior, he will continue to do whatever he is doing. And, no matter how distraught you are, he will feel better about himself! Clearly, you do not mind. It is unlikely that your life will get better if you need him to stop what he is doing to be happy. Remember, these outcomes will take place no matter what, if any, answer given.
People talk about the elephant in the room as if it is a bad thing to let the obvious go unsaid. My controversial stance is sometimes pretending everything is ok is the best choice at that time. There’s a reason people leave that elephant alone!
Caroleena, explaining X-hooker Life hack: don’t ask if you don’t really want to know.
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