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Anti Vax Conspiracy Theorists Can’t Answer One Question
You Must Know I Am a Cynic I have seen enough to know, specifically, some ways the “system” works against the poor, for example. I witnessed the clearly biased reporting of the media that hated Trump. I am by nature a doubter. But the conclusions I reach are based on things I know, like I…
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From Trick to Friend, loneliness motivates me to make the change
Attraction not Promotion AA does not advertise. Meetings don’t recruit members. People look for meetings. I have always maintained that philosophy with clients. I shouldn’t say always. I experimented with reaching out to people who had posted about me on a discussion site. I was instantly branded a weirdo and people told each other they…
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Hawaii tops the United States in Diversity , see link, but that does not help me
I would love to fit in somewhere if only I could find a place in this diverse place
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We need a felon’s perspective on juries, and I’m not going to say what you expect
Felons on juries–probably will never happen bc people think the way I used to I always figured a felon is a bad person. Of course I will point out that there’s felonies and there’s felonies. I heard a hostile teacher who knew my background say to my class: we don’t want murderers, rapists, prostitutes. The…
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These women get punched on tv (w/link to YouTube video)
Once you make an observation, whatever you noticed will be so obvious it will seem like a caricature You will ask yourself how you failed to notice these patently obvious observations before. Obvious observations–those words must be related. Read on to find out the women you will see taking a beating on tv, should the…
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I Am in a Crisis. I KNOW the words that Do NOT Comfort
I would still have a car if I gave in to my prejudices about career criminals. Are the stereotypes to be revered to stay on the safe side?
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I Am in a Crisis. I KNOW the words that Do NOT Comfort
“You Brought it on Yourself” People tell us this tired phrase when we have issues. We tell ourselves the same thing. “I have no one to blame but myself,” is another version of the same idea. These words are common “go-to’s” when we seek advice, consolation, another way to look at a situation that disturbs…
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Sex workers know not to expect commitment but still…
Secret relationships in Honolulu are common yet many never imagine the secrets professional men hold.
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Sex workers know not to expect commitment but still…
The fascinating unlikely long term relationships between sex workers and clients somewhat conform to traditional relationship standards.
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How did it feel to stand on the street waiting for a date?
Loneliness had a profound effect on me in a surprising way, although some would say I was a prime candidate to do what I did
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Capital Punishment for Everyday Women? A popular show indicates it happens often
Women refuse men sex at their own risk.
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Taboo Honolulu–why do I really write about the forbidden?
Here is a vulnerability I have avoided in the years of writing about Honolulu taboos.
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I interviewed pimps, about what they had to offer
I was going to write a post mocking Honolulu pimps but my writing exposed the racism and loneliness within me that kept me from understanding a deeper truth about the pimp-sex worker ideal relationship.
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Are you going to be an old gray haired hooker on the street?
Older sex workers are more successful than you might think
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Are you going to be an old gray haired hooker on the street?
Surprising truth about older sex workers.
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Sex workers have difficulty when they hate their work and when they enjoy it
A sex worker can find that enjoying her work backfires on her.
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Honolulu street sex workers have life partners and partners in crime
Yes, sex workers have boyfriends who understand the work is not about sex.
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Honolulu street sex workers have life partners and partners in crime
Surprised sex workers have boyfriends? You should not be surprised, especially if she is on the street. Let me be perfectly clear so I do not get criticized for playing into stereotypes and over generalizing. Not all sex workers are addicts. There are women, and men, who find the advantages of sex work over, say,…
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The Experience of being arrested for Honolulu street prostitution
How did it feel to get caught engaging in Honolulu street prostitution?
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The Experience of being arrested for street prostitution
Here is how it felt to be targeted by undercover Honolulu police in a sting to catch street prostitutes.
Hawaii Street Life-a Trusted Insider Tells All 