Women have to say “no means no.” It is not just that men don’t listen to women when it most matters. Like when women say they may be near a bed but they don’t want to get in. Men do not admit to hearing the “no” as they wheedle, cajole, and even pressure for sex. […]
There’s one wrong assumption I made about mahus, Hawaii Crossdressers who self identify as female and have sex with men.