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Am I a bigot because intimacy between men makes me uncomfortable?
There’s more and less prejudice Have you ever heard the expression, “the more things change the more they stay the same”? I never understood what that meant until now. In my youth no one I knew was openly gay, the word AIDS was never mentioned by the president since everyone knew it was a punishment…
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Girl wants guy, guy wants a different guy and sometimes that girl–I have advice
The changing social status of homosexuality When I was growing up I did not know any peers who were openly gay. That’s openly. Yes, now people I went to school with are out. It is more accepted. Obviously its not totally accepted since the default is always straight and people have to break the news…
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“Two Boys Kissing,” a kid’s book In Honolulu libraries
Why does this shock me: Am I a hypocrite? I want people to disregard my past no matter what they think of it. I want a certain e. But I do no freely give acceptance to others, nanely those who present homosexuality to kids as if it were just as normal as any other choice.…
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Sexually ambivalent? You’re not alone
Socially unacceptable does not equal unusual.
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Honolulu community outreach workers give advice to avoid celeb-style overdoses. See link
The line between us and tem us not as definite as previously thought. People are surprised to find they qualify, sometimes by proxy, for dual citizenship in both “us” and “them.”
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Hookers have something people envy
The common perception about prostitution is that men pay women they find attractive for sex, possibly because these men are such losers the only way women will have sex with them is with a financial incentive. A less common, but still persistent belief is that the women are so incredible anyone would have to sweeten…
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A Real Life List of Amazing Reasons Used by Straight Clients and/or TG Working Girls To Make Doing It Ok
Real life, genuine, list of statements I have actually heard, that TG working girls have said to convince a straight guy to engage in an encounter, and self talk straight guys tell themselves
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One Unappealing Reason Women Want Threesomes
Had the four of us that were involved in the threesomenot been so dishonest and self serving we might have enjoyed it but as it was the group sex was really no fun. Here’s why
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What is the difference between mahus in Honolulu and transgender women in the mainland United States? *Again, my unsupported opinion with lots of generalizations
In Hawaii, men dressed as women aren’t men trying to pass for women nor do they necessarily want to be women. They are in their own gender category. Colloquially called “mahus,” addiction leads them to mingle with the female hookers in downtown Honolulu’s street sex work scene. This is where straight men secretly select them…
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“All Men Are Gay”
That’s what one of my associates said. “All men are gay,” Mandee would reiterate when telling stories of her past. She was an adriot storyteller, so it was always fun to listen. I like the word associate, because it is more accurate than the word friend. In Mandee’s case I liked her but she didn’t…
Hawaii Street Life-a Trusted Insider Tells All 