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In Honolulu the search for a public bathroom can take a person far and wide
I get why they closed the bathrooms but public health cannot be maintained without facilities for the homeless.
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In Honolulu Envy is Used to Sabotage People
Honolulu is full of directed envy
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Being in downtown Honolulu feels like an escape from loneliness. See Quora link
Getting an apartment in Honolulu can be very isolating
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Sexually ambivalent? You’re not alone
Socially unacceptable does not equal unusual.
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Honolulu’s distance from the AIDS epidemic has changed in my life
AIDS went from an issue to a part of my life in Honolulu
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Men who lie to their hookers and their wives out of habit
If men want no strings attached they have to pay for women to deny their natures and put aside emotions. Lots of men are willing to pay for that detachment, with the sex of course.
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Am I willing to see what I have in common with the racist or the rapist?
Do we want to be more like Jesus or keep going on judging others?
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Hawaii Street Life Hacks: tips from the underworld for the real world
Hawaii Street Life Hacks–wisdom from the underworld for the real world
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Honolulu Adult Services Providers on the street seldom have an online presence – Intimate stories from Honolulu’s Addicted Streets
We don’t see the taboo underworld operating above ground
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“Honolulu police target gambling in residential areas | Honolulu Star-Advertiser.” I’m told game rooms are EVERYWHERE!
Many Hawaii residents don’t think of the community bc they have almost no home ownership
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Clients were normal, not weirdos–one of the biggest surprises according to sex workers
Unsavory characters is the expectation I was watching one of my beloved forensics shows and the narrator intoned that when a call girl gets murdered there’s a huge pool of degenerate clients who were potential suspects. According to interviews I have done and my own memory, I would have said there’s a huge pool of…
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Normal People Have No Respect for My Efforts to Humanize Sex Workers and that hurts!
This is the raw me just minutes after the phone conference with legit members of society with nothing but contempt for me and all I am and have been. I will confine this topic to this one post and give you some uplifting outrage next time, if I cannot manage cheer,.
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I have needlessly carried my vaccination card all week in Honolulu
Vaccination passport policy announced Today is Friday September 24, 2021. This is the second week of the big policy initiative that requires Hawaii residents, at least in Oahu, to show proof of vaccination or a very recent negative COVID test. As you know if you are a faithful reader (welcome if you are a newcomer…
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Addiction caused me to miss basic life lessons in adulting, like car ownership skills
During my young adulthood the only thing I knew about cars was to try to catch the eye of the driver to see if he would stop for me. Cars were what I looked at when I was looking for someone who was looking for me. And oh yes, the four police stings I was…
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People Cheer “Arrests” but there is a lot more to know before we know anything
HPD: 74 arrests made in Chinatown in last 6 weeks under crime prevention program https://www.newsbreakapp.com/n/0bqKw7wQ?&share_destination_id=MTU5ODM3MDA2LTE2MzE0Nzg3MDcwMzI=&s=a99&pd=0AoeuE7z&hl=en_US Downtown Honolulu’s Chinatown is in the midst of a much touted police “crackdown” I have told you that downtown Honolulu has been one of Oahu’s epicenters for drugs. Years ago I walked those streets in the sincere belief that I…
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“How do you feel” is a question that enrages sex workers
Here is a surprising fact about the experiences of downtown Honolulu sex workers.
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Incomplete story about downtown Honolulu Homeless:
Oahu’s Homeless On the Move https://www.newsbreakapp.com/n/0bl7FHE7?share_id=eyJ1c2VyaWQiOjE1OTgzNzAwNiwiZG9jX2lkIjoiMGJsN0ZIRTciLCJ0aW1lc3RhbXAiOjE2MzA3MTcxMjQzMjN9&s=a99&pd=0AoeuE7z&hl=en_US One person can ruin things for everyone. That is most true regarding what people know about the homeless. I know a few people who stayed outside on River Street. One person might leave a mess but here is something people do not know. The reason people can stay in…
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Working girls and $ from certain men
Money from men bc they care? It happens. Not often but it does.
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From Trick to Friend, loneliness motivates me to make the change
Attraction not Promotion AA does not advertise. Meetings don’t recruit members. People look for meetings. I have always maintained that philosophy with clients. I shouldn’t say always. I experimented with reaching out to people who had posted about me on a discussion site. I was instantly branded a weirdo and people told each other they…
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Sex workers know not to expect commitment but still…
Secret relationships in Honolulu are common yet many never imagine the secrets professional men hold.
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Sex workers know not to expect commitment but still…
The fascinating unlikely long term relationships between sex workers and clients somewhat conform to traditional relationship standards.